Update – Guy
Did You Know?
‘The capacity to be alone is capacity to love’.
It may look paradoxical to you, but it’s not. It is an existantial truth: Only those people who are capable of being alone are capable of love, of sharing, of going into the deepest of core of another person– without possessing the other, without becoming dependant no the other, without reducing the other to a thing, and without becoming addicted to the other.
They allow the other absolute freedom, because they know that if the other leaves, they will be as happy as they are now. Their happiness cannot be taken by the other, because it not given by the other.